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167 responses to “Your Stories”

  1. Eya Avatar
    Eya

    Hi guys I’m Eya from Tunisia
    i really wanna tell u about something and please tell me if that person love me or just words if he’s interested in me or not i really need ur help
    Well i met a Korean guy in app it calls MEEF we were talking for year ago he’s 22 and I’m 16 sometimes i feel he’s too interested in me sometimes not he asks me about everything like what u eat , what are u doing? , did u sleep well ? , how are u? He asks me about my hobbies , my fav team , my birthday even he asks me about the place i born in , in general the things i like , he know everything about me ..
    One day when we were talking and it was too late in Korea he said good night , love u 😘😘 i answer him by ” finally u saly it , love u Moore ” but Actually he only read the msg and didn’t answer maybe coz he slept or what , i remember he asked me if I like to sleep with him or not i said idk i must trust u first and i asked the same question he said Yess !! I want sleep with u
    And yesterday he sent me a msg he said i wanna hug and sleep with i said come 🤧❤️ and he read the msg and didn’t answer
    Does he felt shy ? Or what didn’t understand 😐💔
    But i really whenever i ask him about something about me he guess it truly , he said I’m the prettiest girl he has ever seen he said he saw many girls but he prefers me and I’m the prettiest , kind and wonderful girl he said when he talks to me he rest and he loves Arabs because of me and he envy me coz i can understand Arabic and watch Arabic movies and he still awake at late hours to talk to me
    Sometimes i believe him sometimes i say all the guys say that coz they feel lonely that’s why I send him my pic with my friend and we were both wearing hijab ( covering our hair ) and i told him if u really like me u must know which one is me and he guess me truly i really shocked how ? Even in 2021 he saw only pic in an app and he stills remember my face even in 2022 ?!!
    I remember i was offline for 3 or 4 days when i open my phone i found many msgs from him more than 15 msgs in different time but he deleted all of them i don’t know what he sent but I’m really curious about so when i texted him he said i thought u died 😂😂 doesn’t it a cold answer does he don’t wanna show me he worried about me or he really don’t care ?
    Please if u read this help me i really wanna know ur opinion about that coz i feel i really love him and attached on him

  2. Jeshu Nanami Rai Avatar
    Jeshu Nanami Rai

    I met my bf through the kkt app well I’m not kpop fan or anything. I was bored so tried to see how does it work. I joined some group chat and made so many good friends. That’s where I met my bf he is Korean .but I didn’t care nor I talked with him but he came to talk with me and at first we talked like good friends .I never wanted to be in relationship so I didn’t have that kind of feeling for him but after a few months like 5 months he said he likes me and I’m really priceless for him . I was a like what !! But I said I don’t want to be in any relationship and I don’t trust long distance relationship and other things I don’t want be hurt or break other heart but he was like I won’t break your heart I will do my best for you. I thought a lot then I accepted him . We were good we never fought . He was always kind to me . And I also tried to understand him. He used to say I’m sorry because of my work I never get time to talk but I was like that’s okay just take care of yourself . I always gave first priority to him never get angry slowly I found that I truly loves him so I was working hard for us even we are far I tried to be with him soon it just I don’t want that someone give another name to my love so I never asked anything to him whenever he asked I said that’s fine when we meet we can give anything to eachother for now just stay my side.we have been dating like 1 and half year . But I wanted to know his feeling for me just I just asked him how you feel about me just that one question changed everything . He didn’t said how he feel he just said I won’t be with someone cause they are attractive so don’t worry about that … I wanted to know that how he feels about me but he was making mess so I aksed I just want to know your feeling then he said to be Frank we can’t able to see eachother so what you think about it . At that time i felt like someone stabbed my heart into pieces … I loved him with my heart I never ever tried to chested on him . The distance never affected me I had been in patients . But when he said that I was broken from inside … I recently lost my mother and his love was there when I was sad but now I lost another … I love him but I don’t wanted to force him to be with him so I said if it’s hard for you then you can end this I’m ok so he said whenever I say I’m ok it’s give him depress thinking the can’t able to do anything for me so he need time to think again over it. I know he doesn’t want this relationship but still making me guilty so I said take your time . I respect your decision but he didn’t replied on Christmas I thought maybe no one wished him cause he is not close with anyone so I told my few friends to wish him and I also wished him next day he just replied that wish . I’m broken but I can’t show my emotional to anyone so out I’m acting like I’m ok but inside I cried everyday … I’m still confused if he gonna reply me his final ans or not …. We ended or what it makes me so confused but still I pray for him and his health. Even we met on online but my feeling for him is true and I loved him , still loves him and will love him . I just want to know if he ever loved me with heart then I’ll feel satisfies I will be sad if he didn’t but won’t say him bad … When I see his happiness I will be happy for that

  3. Grrr Avatar
    Grrr

    I think u should stop chatting with him..never!!

  4. fancy Avatar
    fancy

    so here.. Let’s just say my name is Peppa. Okay so lemme start.

    Since I was in 6th grade, I started learning Korean since I was a die hard KPOP fan BEFORE. So now, I can speak korean but I’m not that fluent. I am a Filipina and I’m 17 years old now. I just met this Korean guy last last week through an online language exchange app. We’ve been messaging each other through facebook messenger for like two weeks already and there would be no day that we wont have conversation.

    On my birthday last week, he sent me a very long message wishing me a happy birthday, he’s thankful because he met me, and that i am important to him. He said he wants to spend my birthday with him and at the end of the message he said “I love you” and i really dont know how I should take that, if that was an i love you as a friend or more than a friend.

    He told me that I was important to him and he respects me because I’m a nice and kind person. Sometimes he would tell me he misses me and also send cute heart stickers.

    We exchange messages to each other everyday but we really dont have much things to talk about. We talk everyday but we only ask each other “What are you doing?” “How are you?” or “Good Morning” then in the afternoon we would ask each other that again and also at night.

    We do message each other everyday but the thing is, he replies late(mostly) like he would message me first then I would reply to him but i have to wait for his reply for 10mins or 1hour and the longest would be like 6hours.

    There was one time, that day messaged me in the morning a good morning and how are you only but after that he didnt reply. i waited and waited and waited and finally he messaged me and he said he was sorry we couldnt talk properly that day he said he was sorry and that he was a jerk.

    Also… He’s activity status would be like if he replies to my message, he would be online then offline again then online then off. I dont know if he’s ‘very busy because actually he’s in Australia right now and he’ll be back in Korea next week’ or is it just he’s not interested in me.

    I think I already like him because whenever he replies late or not message me first, I would feeeeeeeeel veeerry sad and i would really be in a bad mood like he’s literally the one that would make my day.

    sorry if my story was too long…. please help meee :(( im really confused if he’s into me or ugh…:(

    thank you

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