[Q&A] Can I find Korean Muslim to marry?

A woman wants to know if she can find a man of Islam in Korea.

Seoul central mosquelonely101 asked:

I am a Muslim girl who thinks Korean men are good looking (as in people from my culture are not). As a Muslim, I can only marry a respectable Muslim guy but it seems impossible for me to find a Muslim Korean. My ultimate question: do they even exist? Can you just either raise my hopes or crush them so that I can move on from this? Thanks.

In South Korea, the number of people of Muslim faith has been steadily increasing since the Korean War. The data I found says there are fewer than 30 000 Korean Muslims, most of them living in Seoul. If you include the immigrants from South Asia and Middle East the number rises to around 35 000. However, I have not been able to find official statistics that even mention Islam. According to 2005. data from KOSTAT on Korean population divided by religion, Atheism, Buddism, Protestantism make up most of the 47 million citizens, while 163 000 are categorized as “The other”. I believe Islam is one of the religions that make up this category. As you can see, that is a very small percentage of total population. But to answer your question, yes, they do exist.

I asked Kimchi Man and he said he has never met a Muslim person even though he met many people in schools he attended, and army barracs during his military service, but he has seen them on TV in Korea.

However, may I suggest another point of view? You say you don’t consider people from your culture good looking, as I see it, you are not attracted to them. While it is possible that it is all about physical attraction, have you ever considered the possibility that you are attracted to what Korean men represent for you? I assume you don’t know many Koreans in person and your knowledge about Korea comes from some sort of media. (I know I may be assuming too much). So, when you say a Korean guy, you actually mean an idea of a perfect guy you have. For example, a guy that will give you stuffed toys and carry you on his back when you get tired. So maybe all you need to do is find a guy with that personality in your culture and you will suddenly see he is really good looking.

– Oegukeen

 

 

Edit: One of the commenters, Ms. KIM Touria, left a link for Facebook group and a story about Korean man who turned to Islam.

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177 responses to “[Q&A] Can I find Korean Muslim to marry?”

  1. OlO삼욱욱욱공일사구 Avatar
  2. lonely101 Avatar
    lonely101

    I appreciate all your comments and I like to think of them all as friendly reminders. :) Of course I will choose my husband based on his Iman and fear of Allah swt first and foremost. All I meant by my question was that I wanted to know of the number of Korean Muslims in Korea. They seem to be attracting to me and (besides his faith in Islam) I wish to also be attracted to the one I marry, naturally.
    Since I first posted the question I reflected on many suggestions that were given and I realized that I liked the culture of Koreans and their language which made me attracted–not just their looks.
    I meant no offense to anyone of any culture, race or religion. :) JAK

    1. shahid mahmood Avatar
      shahid mahmood

      Hi I am Shahid, a boy from Pakistan doing PhD in a university at Seoul. I would like to get married to any S.Korean girl/female. Please help me is there any Muslim female/girl?

    2. KoreanLover Avatar
      KoreanLover

      Hi , I just wanted to tell , that I was exactly the same feeling the same point of views, the same emotion the same religion , OMG !!! I feel happy and sad at the same time, happy because I aint the only one who thinks that and sad because Korean Muslim as giving us hard time to get them if one day we meet them … But I feel you and support … I feel attracted to them through their behave, values, language GOOD LOOKING etc… InshAllah we all woman seeking for our WONDERFUL Korean will meet him one day ! Ameen !

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    Anonymous

    We Korean Muslims are less than 5,000.

    Anyway I really dont like your idea of getting married with ‘good looking’ Korean Muslim.

    What matters to us is Iman not appearance.
    If you want a happy marriage life then try to find ‘religious’ and practicing Muslim. That is also an advice of our prophet Muhammad sallaAllahu alaihi wasallam.

    May Allah guide us all and give us sucess.

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      Anonymous

      I got an impression that you are searching each other Korean-Korean, open mind in coran you’ll find some ayat which advise to muslims to marry another foreigner muslim in order to know the civilisation of the others .
      salam alaykum :)

      1. Green_apple1224 Avatar
        Green_apple1224

        Assalamualaikum :) I agree with you and also to the person you reply to. It’s not a sin to choose your partner based on looking and it’s not a must neither. Personal preference is also important as long as we keep ourselves on the true path and follow syari’ah. Plus, marrying a Korean Muslim is my dream too. It’s not because of their good-looking but their culture which teach them to be well-behave. And somehow, I don’t know how to deny the feeling of wanted to be married to a Korean Muslim in the name Allah. :)

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      Anonymous

      i like ya post Anonymous

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    Anonymous

    Hello,

    I was searching about muslim korean community on the web and i choosed this page.

    I highly respect korean citizens cause of their great open mind and respect of the others.

    I Don’t why or for what Korean women attract me for the following reasons
    Their beauty
    Their respect.
    The only thing is that i’m muslim… not extremist i’m an open minded muslim.
    And i must find a muslim wife*

    i’m just 23 but i think about it.

    So i wish you good luck from Algeria and by Mehdi.

    1. oegukeen Avatar

      Thank you. And good luck to you too.

      1. shahid mahmood Avatar
        shahid mahmood

        Hi I am Shahid, a boy from Pakistan doing PhD in a university at Seoul. I would like to get married to any S.Korean girl/female. Please help me is there any Muslim female/girl?

  5.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    나는 크리스천

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