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  1. Hi, i just want to know how can you tell if a korean guy likes you? Cause there is a korean guy that i really like, actually i don’t just like him, i am sure to myself that i LOVE him already, since the first time that i saw him in his store, he owns a kage here in korea, my work place is kind a near in his store, i’m a filipina and currently working as a factory worker here in korea, and i’ve never had a boyfriend ever in my entire life, and i’m already 31 years old. This is the first time that i felt something like this, a strong feeling of affection towards a man. There are times that i can’t sleep, feels frustrated cause of the man i love, because i don’t know if he also likes me or he is just being friendly. He knows how to speak in english. I’m not beautiful and i’m also not sexy, that’s why it’s even frustrate me thinking that a korean guy like him will never like a unattracted fat girl like me.whenever i went to his store and i don’t talk to him or start a conversation with him he just look at me for a second then get back to his work again. But if i ask something or start a conversation with him he always smiles at me and talk to me like he is happy,.. I’m so confused and frustrated.. I don’t want to assume anything, cause it will only hurt me knowing that it is so impossible for him to like or love me back..

  2. Here’s my Korean man love story:
    It was an unusual beginning. First time I met him, I was hardly interested in him. Not even try to befriend him. He was the new guy at work. I just got married in church. So obviously, I’m not interested in other men. Though my marriage was in crumbles before it began, I’d like to share this precious time I had with him to everyone because I wanted them to open their eyes about interracial relationships. We weren’t officially a couple but I cannot say we were just friends either because the connection I felt for him was unreal. After my first heartbreak, I never thought I would feel love again. My reasons for marriage were wrong but I was prepared to live with it. Until I met him.
    It was a week in and I still haven’t talked to him. I was just focused on my work. Until one day on a weekend working overtime, he asked for my help. And I was surprised because I typically ignore him. I taught him a few things and later on during the week, he told me I was smart. Which was an odd thing to say to a girl, imo. Something about him made my walls go down. So I started being nicer to him, invite him with the rest of my co-workers to go for a walk. But we would end up falling behind and talk with each other. I loved Koreanovelas but that was it. As a Filipino who had Korean neighbors that are snobbish, I had a bad taste of “foreign” encounters so I told myself I would never be in a relationship with a non-Filipino. But BOY I ate my words. He made me laugh, angry, and sad at the same time. Everyday during meetings we would doodle and tease each other like were still kids (were in our 30s). We would have long talks at the parking lot about anything – work, his life before this, my life before him, and his Korean girlfriend. It was all so innocent.
    I dont know when it happened or how but I started falling in love with him. We would have lunches together, like I do with my other co-workers, but somehow it felt intimate for me. We would talk on the phone after work. There was a question I asked him before and I don’t know why I brought it up because we just started to get to know each other, I asked him “What do you think of interracial marriage?”. He paused and answered, it’s tough because of the language barrier and cultural difference. I was shocked at how similar my opinion was about it. I said “yes, I understand” and that’s why I’ve never tried it. Now weeks later (after we got close), I asked him “what do you think our relationship would’ve been like?”. And he said “it will be hard but it doesn’t mean it’s impossible.” By then, I had made up my mind to end whatever it is that we had because I realized this is wrong. It wasn’t innocent anymore and I couldn’t pretend that it was a simple crush on a new guy. I decided to leave that job so I wouldn’t see him again.

    He told me he liked me. That he didn’t really miss his gf but she was his first real relationship and she’s Korean. He said he didn’t really love her and that he would’ve dated me. We both never saw each other as a possibility but somehow something changed. It was hard when I said I had to stop seeing him. He said this feels like were breaking up. I said I know. He’s not very showy and he doesnt smile a lot but everytime we see each other, his eyes would lit up and I’d see that wonderful smile of his. So when he grabbed to hold my hand, I was surprised. When he hugged me and looked down on me, I felt warm and secure. When he said he likes me too (I said it first just to get it out of my system, I didn’t really expected anything in return), I felt I was ON TOP OF THE WORLD. I never knew a feeling like this existed or meet the man of my dreams (yes I suddenly remembered a dream when k was a kid of this guy I dont know). I realized he looked just like him.

    I wanted to leave my husband for him. I wanted him to leave his gf for me. But I didn’t, as a Catholic and a conservative, I wanted to honor my vows. And he didn’t want to be the reason for a marriage. So we both ended it.

    It was a bittersweet goodbye. Months have already passed since I left that job when I asked to see him one last time. I gave him a parting gift and I said this will be the last I’ll ever see him. We joked and talked like nothing happened. And then he asked how my marriage was. I said I’m moving out and he was shocked. He said he thought things are better. Then I said, well I better go. We were both smiling but I can see the sadness in his eyes and I wonder if he noticed mine. It was the last time I’ll ever see him like this. He knew that and I can tell he wanted to say more but didn’t. He was always the gentleman with a kid at heart. I loved him for that.

    I’m not sure if I’ll ever meet someone who can make my heart beat like that again. But he will always be that summer I’ll remember that made me feel alive and dream again for a better life.

    I stayed with my husband for another 2yrs. to make it work. I’ve since stopped communication with him. Things haven’t worked out and I am ending my marriage before it ruins me and my husband. Ive known him all my life and never been with another guy since. My first heartbreak was with a man I knew before I met him. My 2nd one was with this Korean guy. But it wasn’t as devastating, it was just inevitable.

    I hope he’s happy and found love. I hear about him through a friend but I don’t ask about him. My heart still beats at the memory of him but only time will tell if he and I are meant to be together. I have stopped hoping and have decided to move forward. Even if it means being alone. It doesnt mean I wont be happy.

    I thanked him for coming into my life and I will never regret every moment I spent with him. My only regret is that I hurt my husband in the process. I told the Korean not to make the same mistake I did. I told him to marry someone he loves and loves him just as much.

  3. Hey guys!

    Here am I to share with you my story with my lovely korean boyfriend!

    I’m Mélanie, a 20 year-old french girl, who went last year 3 months to Seoul in order to do an internship in a company.
    As a kpop fan, you can imagine that I was really happy to be finally able to go there and meet the people and culture. And sure, I had an amazing time: I met many wonderful people who made me discover at day- and nightime Seoul!
    I was secretly hoping to find myself a korean boyfriend, but after 2 months I started to think that it won’t happen. Not because I couldn’t find a guy (I’m sure you know that in clubs, a western girl can never be 5 seconds alone), but it never felt right to me and I could feel that any of those guys wanted something serious with me, until… I met my future boyfriend.

    So here how it went:
    I was enjoying some time with two german friends (I speak fluently german) in what used to be my favorite club in Seoul. After a few hours, each one of us got separated talking to other people or dancing; so I started to search for them and was hoping that they hadn’t left without me!
    I found one of them outside talking to this gorgeous guy that I had never noticed before even though he was working at that club! But what really impressed me, was that he could speak german! A korean guy who can speak german… can you believe that? I couldn’t because most of them there don’t speak good english. And for the first time in my whole life, I was too shy to join them. Actually I can be a really outgoing person sometimes, but this time I just got intimidated. Don’t ask me why because I don’t know. So I just waited for my friend to finish and after that we went back home.

    A week later, I went back to that club because my russian friend was leaving Korea the next day, and she was so sad that she just needed to be drunk and dance all night. I wasn’t that frilled about it, but it was her last day so I just followed, like everybody else with us.
    This club had always been free for me because I’m a foreigner, but most of our friends were korean, and they wanted to know whether they had to pay and how much. So I just asked someone who was working outside. As I was talking to him, I could notice from his wide eyes open, that he was completely not understanding what I was saying. And this is when my “future boyfriend” came to us, to rescue his friend. I had forgotten about him during the week, but as soon as I saw him, I remembered him and his german skills. I wanted to test his english skills so I asked him whether my korean friends had to pay or not. And he answered me with a perfect english, I was really surprised… I love languages, I can actually speak 4, and I couldn’t believe that this handsome guy in front of me could also speak perfectly german and english. And at that moment, I didn’t care anymore about the club and I just wanted to talk to him.
    We talked all night long, exchanged our numbers, and after a couple of dates, I finally had a korean boyfriend! He is such an amazing person, always so joyfull and take so good care of me. I completely fell in love with him. We had a wonderful time together until I had to go back to France.
    I’ve always been pretty negative about LDR and I was sure of one thing is that I would never be in a LDR, and it’s really amazing how a single person can make you change your mind. I decided to try and to do my best for our relationship, moreover I was sure that it would only last 1 year because I wanted to pursue my studies there.
    So this is how my first LDR has started. Although it was hard at first to be so far from each other and not knowing whether we made the good choice and so on, we had two wonderful months together full of phone calls, skype calls, kakao messages, etc. Unfortunately, he started his military duty on September 2015 and this is when our relationship started to be more difficult. Indeed, I didn’t have any news from him for days, or even weeks because of phone and internet restrictions. But just hearing his voice 5 sec a week, or just being able to talk to him 20 min on a Saturday night at 3 am, has always made me full of joy and my fears go away. We chose to fight despite the distance, and the military restrictions. Letters have become what I cherish the most. Never have I wrote so much letters, and never did I receive so much haha (yes because he writes me a lot too).

    And everything went better on March 2015 thanks to a phone application calls Maaltalk which permits to borrow a korean number (less than 2$ per month) and be able to receive calls from my love one everyday.

    I just want to say that LDR is hard, very hard, and sometimes even harder, but I believe that when you really want something, you just need to fight for it and everything is possible.
    My LDR before Maaltalk wasn’t easy at all, actually I had a lot of negative thoughts such as ” Am I right to wait for this guy that I only hear a few minutes once or twice a week ?..” but I’ve always chased those thoughts, because it would only make it worse.
    Now I’m the happiest girl ever, and in 3 weeks I’m going to Korea again, meeting my boyfriend after 1 year being apart. Unfortunately, I won’t study there this year, but hopefully 2017 will be the one!

    Cheer up to all of you!!

  4. Hi! I’m married to a lovely Korean guy for a few yeras now and we have a beautiful daughter. Overall I love life in Korea but these days I’m feeling a bit lonely and hoping to link up with some other similiar couples. Do you have any tips on how I could do this? I don’t live in Seoul or a bit city so meeting people is a bit difficult. I found this website while searching google for people married in Korea. Thanks in advance. ^^

  5. Hi Hi! for starters I am a white female from PA, and my boyfriend isnt korea korean, he is korean american, he came to the US when he was 1 and currently lives in NYC, so we have a bit more in common~

    We met online on a korean live streaming website. We broadcasted for a good year or so on the same platform together, and met up in person a few times just as friends, but I always thought he was a cutie X3

    This past January he invited me up for a birthday party, so I went! And after afew sojus and some noribang I got the courage to tell him I liked him (I was super unsmooth >< Every day is a learning experience, witch is fun! but its work :P

    I also have been dreading the moment when he is ready to introduce me to his family, makes me wonder if our relationship is worth sticking around for, but for now I'm just enjoying being together with him and getting to know him a bit more day by day <3

    Wish me luck!

  6. Hello everybody ! I want to tell you my little story about my ”good friend” ( he is a korean). I met him aprox. 3 years ago and we still keeping touch. One years ago i told him my feelings. All day I was on pressure, very nervous ,and very scared about his reply. It took me 2 hours to thinking about my decision and i said what i am waiting for? What do i have to lose?. After all i wrote him. 3 minutes after, he seen the message. And his only answer was a lovely emoticon who give a wink and this message ,, we have to set time for meet” I tried to not cry, because i was a little disappointed and very shameful and i tried to answer him very carefully to don’t show him my broken heart, I couldn’t tell him that i’m not going to come to Korea soon. The distance between countries is very long. about 7750 km TT. I though my relation with him is over forever. But in my surprise…after my confesion we could be more freely in conversation. We also flirt sometime… Like always he tell me what he doing , where he is, his wishes…about his workplace..and that he thinking about me.,he tell me that i am beautiful, he care about me. to don’t hang out with guys, to not drink very much, to be carefull night ..But….I am very confused very very. ‘What supposed to be all this??? I don’t understand… he accepted my feelings or just rejected them in a nicely mood and he want to still keep touch just to conversation to don’t be bored. And one thing. Sometime he tell me to come faster in korea to go shopping with him, to watch movie with him. to visit place with him, to go gym with him, and etc.

  7. Hey so i met this korean guy online a while ago..
    we were talking in several subjects and exchanging thoughts and stories etc.. we always had voice calls and even video calls very often… he was so kind ..
    one day I told him I was going to my korean male friend’s house who lives in my country so he told me that he was jealous.. I told him you don’t have to be so he told me “but I love you” .. I was extremly shocked and did’nt answer him .. and we kept talking. . by the days he repeated it by “I really love you.. honestly.. ” I mean.. he was not that kind of a player guy .. i don”t know honestly .. but i didn’t want to be harsh so I told him i like you too .. and then in the next calls he talked about marriage etc.. I really don’t know what to believe ..
    by the way he is going to the army really soon…
    Is he being serious or just playing and having fun..
    I have other korean friends but we are just friends. ..
    hep me xD

    • Girl if he’s telling you not to hang out with other guys, he’s worry about your daily routine and wellbeing, he’s definitely interested in you, try to casually ask him if you can call him oppa, and wait for his answer ,if his answer is a positive one then you know for sure he’s interested in you

    • Korean guys fall in love easy. Trust me on this…dont be serious just have fun. He is going to army and that is almost 2 years of hell for him…relationships dont last. He cant use a phone in the army and only communicate by emaill or facebook chat. I was with an army guy for 9 months. We chatted everyday because i could aaafford to call him between 6 and 9pm. Do not waste 2 years of your life to comit to him unless serious. My ex got depressed from army and broke up with me because he didnt want me waiting.

  8. hi, I was really hoping you will help me, so I met this guy at his work. the first time I met him I was like oh he is cute, he is Korean. long story short, one day I went back to get food and this time he finally talks to me, he asked me where i am from I told him and then I asked him and he told me to guess so I was like are you Korean? and he was like yeah I am. so he asked me for my number i gave it to me, then he text me that same night and asked me if we could go for a date, so we did he was so sweet he spoil me heaps, then he drop me home and message him and rang him i was worried about him a lot, then he sent me a message saying that he is sorry but he won’t be able to have time for me, due to his parents are pressuring him to get a proper job and he doesn’t work well under pressure. any advice you could give me for i am currently confuse, we still talk and all and he always worry for me a lot and he is starting to act the same way he does, for i feel like i might be falling for him

    • The best policy is honesty, why don’t try tell him how you feel? This could be a good a time as any before you compromise your feelings any farther, you need to know where you two stand. Usually when the parents get involved, they either use them as an excuse or they really have a saying in his life, so you need to open up this conversation more sooner than later before you get hurt, who knows ? It may be the best thing you can do for yourself

  9. Hello! I need your advice. I meet this korean guy online, then he ask me to contact him on KK, we’ve been chatting almost 7months. And i think i like him, but i don’t know his feelings, im so clueless about him. He always call me chingu, one time i call him oppa!!! Then his response is “ah.~~~you call me oppa~~~” and then he send me always his pics. He ask me to go to korea, i said yes but soon, he ask me to promise. And one time he said to me “i wish you were here” i was so confused to him, so i was gonna try to confess to him but im afraid that he will turn off to me, i chatted him “saranghae” and “i miss you” but no reaction!!! 😥 I really like him. What im gonna do? By the way his 9-10 years older than me i think?

  10. I need advice, so the guy I was seeing me and him had a complicated story, and we had to stop seeing each other then he later then said ‘I hope you find a better man’ to be honest it made me really sad and I was just wondering if I should message him happy Christmas for part of me feel like he didn’t really mean it. The first time me and him went on a date I saw the way he was looking at me I knew he liked me but can he just fall out of love for me so quickly?

  11. HELLO everyone~
    i am moroccan
    so i met a korean guy online 1 month now, and we talk everyday we share music, pictures of activities that we do everyday or food or places, and he is 26 i am 18, one day he mentioned marriage in Morocco, he told me that he want to get marriage before he turn to 30 and he hope i will be in korea, i have never met him and i really really care about him like a lot even this short duration and i like him, he called me baby one time i have some quations and i want answers please :3
    -how can i tell that i like him ? and it is normal to tell him that?
    -is this age difference normal ?
    -do you think that he thinking of marrigae with me ?
    ~
    THANK YOU :3

    • i think you should be careful before getting serious! You never met him before, and talking about marriage already is kind of strange. If I were you I should ask my parents about it~

    • I’ll try answer all your questions if I can (and as clearly as I can):

      – Yes you can confess (고백 – confession, 고백하다 – to confess), I think a cute way to confess is by writing song lyrics… or maybe that’s just me, a simple one is “The Confession Song” (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAv7MxPUclc) and a long one is SEENROOT’s 오빠야 (Sweet Heart).
      – In my opinion, the age difference is normal… My parents’ age difference is 11 years… so, don’t fret.
      – I do think he’s thinking about marrying you… but the thought of marriage at an early stage like that.. All I’m going to say is don’t rush into it.

      *Also… a little note: You must be able to communicate in Korean well. Well enough to settle down with the Korean man you are talking about.
      And thank you for posting this, this gives me more hope for interracial marriages and relationships! ^^

  12. hi! i meet this korea guy when im in tourist in Jeju, hes 56 and widow and she hav 1 daughter, and im 36, last November 2016 in laundry,he is a supervisor, cause i hav financial problem, i do some part time job there, in a few weeks i call him ajussie but within 2 months i call him oppa, sometimes yeobo, i fall in love with him, and i fell he loves me too, we start dating, and to cut the story short i came back in Philippines, and the worst is im pregnant! before i go home my country, he know that im pregnant and he advise me to abort the baby, but my answer is NO way!
    but i still love him, even do he dont like that im pregnant, i keep thinking him, theres a lot of night that i slept with my tears, i chat him in kakao talk, even one reply nothing! can u please give some advise to forget him😥

  13. Hi,

    I’m a 21 year old Filipina and I met this Korean guy, well, I never been to Korea but I was in love with Korean culture, I’m doing a lot of research and trying to learn everything about it, suddenly while I’m browsing, I saw an app to meet Korean people, out of curiosity, I installed it with the purpose of knowledge exchange and at least to have a Korean friend. I will not mention the app anymore. While browsing, I accidentally pushed the Hi button to a guy, too late I know he was notified already, I checked on his profile and he is good looking so that’s fine, I ignored it because I know he won’t even respond on that, when suddenly he sent me a message and he introduced himself so I’m a bit shocked, to make the story short, we exchange conversations turns out that he is also looking for someone to talk to to learn English. Were both not comfortable of using the app so we decided to continue the conversation using LINE. Conversation went well because he is at least can understand and communicate in english. I don’t know but it feels like we’ve known each other for so long though we’ve just met. Simple conversations turns out to be different, We are already exchanging sweet words, He was very sweet and he makes me feel those butterflies in my stomach. He was older than me and was on his 30s but I don’t even care because I also prefer to date older guys than the younger ones or within my age because they’re so immature. Days passed that I think I’ve already liked him, a lot though I know it won’t work because we don’t even see each other. After couple days we don’t have any communication at all, I was curious why, then after a week or 2 weeks maybe, He sent me a message saying he was busy and there are a lot of things he needs to get done. I understand because I know how Koreans are into when it comes to work ethics. I responded and we exchange conversations again and after couple of days to weeks I haven’t heard anything from him again. It’s just sad that you are in love with the person whom you can’t even see in person and he already affected your everyday life that there will be no days that I was not thinking about him hoping that someday, I will hear back from him again. I just want to know if how will you know if he’s still into you or not, I don’t have any idea how because maybe they’re different from an average Filipino guys. I’m still waiting for him and because I know that this not just only infatuation but I was hit by this guy already that I’m planning to go to Korea just to see him.

  14. and he introduced himself so I’m a bit shocked, to make the story short, we exchange conversations turns out that he is also looking for someone to talk to to learn English. Were both not comfortable of using the app so we decided to continue the conversation using LINE. Conversation went well because he is at least can understand and communicate in english. I don’t know but it feels like we’ve known each other for so long though we’ve just met. Simple conversations turns out to be different, We are already exchanging sweet words, He was very sweet and he makes me feel those butterflies in my stomach. He was older than me and was on his 30s but I don’t even care because I also prefer to date older guys than the younger ones or within my age because they’re so immature. Days passed that I think I’ve already liked him, a lot though I know it won’t work because we don’t even see each other. After couple days we don’t have any communication at all, I was curious why, then after a week or 2 weeks maybe, He sent me a message saying he was busy and there are a lot of things he needs to get done. I understand because I know how Koreans are into when it comes to work ethics. I responded and we exchange conversations again and after couple of days to weeks I haven’t heard anything from him again. It’s just sad that you are in love with the person whom you can’t even see in person and he already affected your everyday life that there will be no days that I was not thinking about him hoping that someday, I will hear back from him again. I just want to know if how will you know if he’s still into you or not, I don’t have any idea how because maybe they’re different from an average Filipino guys. I’m still waiting for him and because I know that this not just only infatuation but I was hit by this guy already that I’m planning to go to Korea just to see him.

  15. hi i”m amina from algeria , i have 24 years old , i have a korean friend how i met in a meeting APK , we used to talk everyday , he is an open minded , talkative , we share everything we did in our day , i’m muslim and he is non i wear scarf but this thing wasn’t a problem since we respect everyone’s culture, we never met before we just share photos , i start liking him , i”m scared to get separate if i told him , i don’t want to lose him ,

  16. Hello!
    So, I’ve been talking with this Korean guy via Kakao Talk almost for 7 months now. I am 21 and he is 23. We text every day and I mean every day. He’s a very kind man and he’s always checking on me. He asks if I had dinner, if I had a good day, if I slept enough, etc. We also have a lot in common and sometimes the best part of day is talking to him. He’s always there for me when my day has been awful, telling me that he’s on my side and making me laugh. We’ve exchanged photos of our days and the things we are doing. He’s always really respectful and never asks anything weird of me. We’ve never heard each others voices because he is worried about his English which, I find super cute. I’m hesitant to say that I have feelings for him because A) I don’t know how he feels and B) He lives in Korea and I’m in the United States. I am taking a month long trip to Seoul in Feb. and we will meet for the first time then. We’ve counting down the days together. I plan on going to grad school in Korea so, I believe that if there is something it could work.

    If anyone has any advice I would appreciate it!
    Thanks!!
    -Kayla

  17. Hello Everyone!
    I am a 42 year old american woman who met a Korean man on a language exchange website in August 2015. He is a doctor who is ten years younger than me. Wonderful man and we have talked,texted and emailed each other everyday for almost three years now. He has always expressed an interest in practicing medicine in America but it has increased in the last few months. We met physically for the first time in May when I traveled to Korea. He stayed with me and we traveled Seoul and the surrounding areas. It was an amazing and beautiful trip that culminated in our first kiss. Very exciting time for someone who hasn’t dated in 20 years. I am a single mother of a 20 year old daughter! Shortly after my return home he traveled from Seoul to stay with me and my family. It must have been so overwhelming for him to be around so many people. He insisted on paying for my trip to New York with him before he left. A few months later he came back for a second time to experience Halloween and other American cultural things. Since our first physical meeting he has showered me with many expensive gifts. I tell him that his friendship is enough and I do not need expensive gifts. He works hard for his money so he should keep it for himself. He always says you deserve it and keeps doing it. I appreciate it so much but I am not used to being spoiled like this. The down side here is he doesn’t like to talk about anything personal so no relationship talk or confessions ever. He only says he rejects blind dates often because he wants to study and come to America. Can these be considered gifts of affections beyond the physical affections he expresses when we are together or are they just kind gestures of friendship that are customary because of my age or cultural differences? I am so confused that my ability to confess my feelings are hindered out of fear of rejection. I would appreciate any thoughts or kind words of encouragement!

  18. 안녕하세요!
    I will share my bitter sweet love story with this guy ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
    Our love story idk if it will make you cry or not but it all happened so fast but don’t judge, you know the feeling of when you meet someone you just felt like you know each other for ages now ? It happened between us, We built a strong connection in this short span of time we opend up to each other and share the same values. He’s persistent even though I don’t like him really at first and doubted him a lot since its crazy he confessed so early and I said if he just playing with me, if he’s drunk ㅋㅋㅋㅋ And if he’s just faking acount I thought all about it. I asked him to not flirt with me like any other guys that just wants something and just playing. Chatting girls. He said he is serious and not like them (other korean guys) that is flirting. He said he’s serious and angry ㅋㅋㅋㅋ He wants to see my picture that’s why I doubted him really. I said to send his picture first then he send a lot of his pictures. Then I thought what if he’s using someone’s picture ? I thought all of it if he’s really true and serious. I said why you confessed so early he said that I’m his ideal type and he really likes me. I thought a lot of it and doubted him. I just said I want to be just friends. Then he said sorry to me that he confessed so fast but he said to me he’s not drunk and don’t regret confessing to me. He’s embarrassed because he confessed to me so fast. He said he will come at me slowly and just be friends if that’s what I want. Then we become just friends and got to know each other a lot. I’m surprised we share same opinions and value. I started to fall for him when I knew this person is real to me. No guy courting a girl will say that he’s done sex before and will risk losing the girl right ? He told me all of it and said I am not the man you thought I were, now you will hate me. I said no, I actually appreciated him more since what if we get together ever and I didn’t know about that right ? He says that he wants me to love him back but he don’t force it. I ask him several times, how on earth is he possible he likes me I really didn’t believe him. We really got along and get to know each other when were still just friends. In one time I realized he’s a real person with me. I also opend up to him too. I warned him all of my masty personalities and make him hate me but nah he’s too persistent. I sent my picture with out filter without all the glamour. I said I am ugly he said that I am not. We return each other’s selca. By the way I may look korean or japanese but I am of asian descent so here goes, I said to him why he fall in love with me. I made him know truelly and fully about me that I want him to hate me but he just falls in love with me. Well I don’t want him to fall for me just because I am his ideal. He learnt all of my truw nature he still likes me. I also learnt about this person he really is true person we become bestfriends. We open up a lot and comfortable opening up any topics we felt comfortable in each other and I staryed falling for him. In his sincerity that’s why I fall in love with this guy. He proved that he’s serious even asking me until late at night and I said to him to sleep but he said if Do i really want him to sleep in his strangth of wanting to talk to me. He made a lot of effort to just prove himself to me. He always sends me his day and updates also his current selcas and I also update him. When he’s become quiet I confessed that I liked him. He said he’s flying because I said that I am starting to like him. Since our feelings were mutual I already answered him and we became couple. We video call always before he go to his teaching, he’s teakwondo teacher for children and were only 1 yr apart. We also during the night until we sleep ㅋㅋㅋㅋ Now we became couple were really happy and just enjoy each others company. I became more overprotective when I became his gf and doubts him more, I doubted him because of him not having kakaotalk why he only has line and wechat. All koreans use kakaotalk. Well we become negative of our relationship because we hurt each other in a way of he thinks I don’t trust him while he’s opened his heart to me a lot all of his truth. We also have many barriers. We thought that were better off as friends, our break up story is painful we both agreed since He will go to korean army military service this April until December 2019. I said I’ll trust him amd wait for him but he said I can’t because he don’t want me to get hurt in the end and for him not to get hurt too. We are both scared what our relationship might go in the future in we might hurt each other in the future so we just broke up and just stayed as bestfriends. We are both crying but were both helpless he don’t want to hurt me amd I also don’t want to hurt him. We just ordinary close friends to this day we still contact and he will still contact me in his vacation in the army. Well we just said if were stillmeant to be in the future we’ll just see. He said that I am a good person amd I deserve a good man. Then I realized this person really loves me. The END ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Btw we met in HelloTalk so it means we don’t have any intention of dating there we both use the app to study foreign language. He’s 20 years old I am 19. I want to tell the story more when became couple but its so cheesy haha so yea then look what happened in the end ㅋㅋㅋㅋ I am from PH. Well were just friends until this day. We will be boyfriend girlfriend this valentines day ㅋㅋㅋㅋ We just joke and kiddimg around these days since we are good as bestfriends that being lovers without assurance that we may both end up hurting each other. He still become my friend even though I cannot became his girl he wants me to be by his side and get closer even just friends ㅠㅠ

  19. Hi,I’m from India.
    My story of meeting Kimchi man is through a social networking site. Now we talk through Line app due to the fact that he works as navigation officer and the strength of that app is quite weak. We’re talking for 3 months now. We talk few times every day and it’s quite casual chat. His replies are short and brief. I just wanted to be his friend but ended up falling for him. He told me that he dated previously but never been to a serious relationship. I never confessed my feelings to him and I don’t know what he feels..’cause his replies are always short…But I really wanna him to like me back but not by force ofcourse…I’m confused what should I do….

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