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Hello~! I came across your lovely blog and I must say that I can’t help it but dream of having a relationship like the one you and your boyfriend have~!<3 how I encountered your blog is another story…
I met this Korean guy online approximately a little bit over a week ago…. we've talked a lot.
After a few days I started to notice some type of disinterest from his part… I'm paranoid as I've had a few unpleasant experiences with men.. so the fear of losing him started to take over.. even as a friend…and so I decided to tell him how I felt….because I just couldn't stand it anymore.. that feeling of anxiety and fear was taking over, I couldn't sleep and I'd even cry a few tears…. strangely enough I've never felt anything similar towards a guy in my entire life.. I have never confessed to anyone.. nor did plan on doing so but with him it feels different…so I went ahead and told him.. YES I know a week is too short to do this type of movement…and tonight.. I'm sitting here regretting it a little.
So I told him… he only said "I feel the same way" but that was about it.. he said he was worried and that it was hard.. but that apparently he DOES feel the same way, … I asked him what made him think it was hard? and he just randomly dissapeared…our time zones are kind of complicated, over there was past midnight so I thought he might have fallen asleep and I know how busy he gets at work… and right now I'm still waiting for his response.. a bit stressed.. can't eat.. and a lot of emotions taking over
My question is…. should I give him time? Does not replying mean he's just not really THAT interested and he couldn't care less about how i feel? or is he scared about the situation specially since we're so far from each other? At this point I'm even starting to think he's not gonna answer at all and just dissapear from my life. I know a week was too fast, and I'm thinking he thought I was being some desperate or needy chick.. but now I'm so scared of losing his friendship too :( I don't know how the minds of korean men work.. specially since dating morals are so different from the ones here… so any help or advice on what should I do will be greatly appreciated… should I just apologize for being too aggressive ? I don't want to be too pushy either….. I don't know why I'd feel like this about a man I've only been talking to for a week.. is silly and I know.
I've never had a boyfriend before, most of the relationships I build with guys fall apart for no reason I can point at… but with him.. the feeling is so strong..I feel sad.
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hi,i am cherrie manlapaz from philippines,im seaching in facebook to find my true love in korea i like a korean boy.because my cousin have a husband korea.
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Hey Cherrie, why don’t you ask your cousin to fix you a blind date with any one from her husband’s friends or family???
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i want to find my love in korea
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Hi My name is Hajar and I’m from Morocco, i love Korea and koreans_though i’ve never met one_ because i watch lots of K-drama and listen to korean songs specially _cnblue_ but i love people in general and i try my best not to judge. What i want to ask is that i want to have real korean friends and i don’t know where or how to meet them, do you think you can help me with that? it may seems weird but just cuz i love the culture i would love to have a friend from there and thank you ;)
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You guys are awesome. And since I don’t know anyone who actually speaks Korean, you were the first one(s) I thought of when I encountered this issue. I am 46 and I’m trying to help my teenaged daughter write a fan letter to a K-Pop group. Neither of us speaks or reads Korean, but we found something on their official website that we *think* my be directions on where to send fan mail. Google Translate is slightly better than Bing (I think) but it still makes no sense, so we were wondering if you could possibly tell us if this is the address, and if it is, what the address is, Thank you for your time! We truly appreciate the help.
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