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539 responses to “Ask us”

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    Anonymous

    Hello, I am looking at South Korea for graduate school but I don’t really speak any Korean so I will most likely be going to university that teaches both English and Korean. Since I have a very intense attraction towards Asian men but haven’t really had any luck with relationships at all I was wondering if I would most likely remain single if I were to go to Korea. I’m an American but I’ve visited Asia before and live in the UK currently so I am very cultured and don’t have a close minded attitude at all and am very adaptive and accepting over different cultures. I’m really quiet, but not because I’m shy. I just don’t see a need to talk until it’s necessary. I can be really confident when I choose to be but other than that I’m really easy going and patient. I often appear very mellow, at least that’s what people have told me. I can be a little bit attached when I find someone I really like and have a really weird and ecstatic personality when people really get to know me.

    So judging these things with my personality do you think I would get along with Korean guy’s at all? And if some of them might actually approach me or want to date me? Like I said before I have bad luck with these kinds of things and I often feel unwanted. I personally think I’m rather pretty but I feel inadequate when comparing myself to the other Korean girls. I’m just getting really sick of being single but I don’t like being the one to start a relationship so I don’t do anything about it. Do you have any tips for me if I do end up going to Korea for school? How can I make myself open and let the guys know that I’m willing to be with an Asian? Also, I’m one of those who rather get married than date for three plus years, as a general thought do you think that marriage is attainable or not among Koreans?

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    kimmiexboss

    Hi my name is kimmie.
    Im 21 years old and I met a korean American guy in September of this year. I like him right when I first met him. We are the same age. We met through a friend. Later I found him on Facebook and we kept messaging each other back n forth. Later I asked for his number and we started texting. We go to the same college. We unexpectedly had 3 encounter on campus and he’s always the first to say hi to me. Then we became friends and for so e reason our friends say that we both act really strange around each other. I don’t know why Im act so awkward around him abd same goes to him.

    Anyway. ..this Dec it’s his birthday and its Christmas. I thought I’ve been giving him enough sighs as it is. So I decided to confess my feelings to him on his birthday. I made him 1000 stars as a gift. It suppose to grant him one wish. My question is….should I make my confession on his birthday? Should I just wait for another opportunity so that I can save that day special for him?

  3. 임만 Avatar
    임만

    Hello
    I really love your blog (:
    I’ve questions about korean bed scenes in movies
    I didn’t expect to see those scenes in movies and famous actors do that like the guy in “when the winter blows or s.th” and the mv of kim hyung jun
    Are they really being naked even though their society is conservative or it is fake ??
    They really have sex ?? B/c it seems so real for me
    Do koreans accept those actors & singers when they do that ??
    ” I’m not talking about porn they just movies & mv ”

    Hope i find the answers (:
    Keep going & by the way u r sooo lucky 2 have korean husband
    Wish you happiness (:

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    Mya Farra

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    Anonymous

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    Anonymous

    Hi

      1. Natalie Avatar
        Natalie

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