[Q&A] Do Korean men like black women?

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oegukeen

January 22, 2013

Anonymous asked:

Are Korean Men attracted to African American Women?

First of all, as much as it is becoming a cliché, I think we can all agree each Korean man is unique and has unique taste in dating partners.

Also, what does it even mean to be attracted to African American women? Does it mean being attracted to EVERY African American woman? Does it mean being attracted to African American women MORE than women of other races? Or does it mean even being CAPABLE of being attracted to an African American woman? And what about black women who are not American?

Korean men black women I know some may not be satisfied with my seeming lack of answer. They will move back to searching with Google. Those pessimistic will stop when they reach an answer that claims Korean men are racist and say: “Aha, I knew it!” Those desperate for hope will find a success story and be content with knowing it can happen to them too.

You can search for the answer all you want, but the only truth is that there is no answer. And by that I don’t mean I don’t know the answer, I mean there really is none.

But I have a question for you now: Are tall European women attracted to shorter Asian men?

If Kimchi Man asked himself that, he would probably be discouraged and he wouldn’t waste his time with me.

Another question: Are men attracted to women who have larger feet than them?

Once again, if I let that stop me, I wouldn’t have experienced the magic of love.

Love can happen between any two people, and it has happened between Korean men and African American women; even though I’m sure there are some racist people in Korea who wouldn’t date a person of another race (in my experience there are too many racist people in every country).

As for the race issue, it also matters how you meet the guy. Kimchi Man and I first connected on an intellectual level: we discussed for a long time our opinions about taxation systems, education, military service, and shared our love for games and TV shows. Experiencing someone in such a way makes it much more likely to be able to look beyond the surface than if you pick a guy up in a bar or on the street.

I think there is nothing wrong with choosing a man because he is Korean, but if you go around looking for a dating prospect based on who he was born to be, instead of who he grew up to be, you can’t blame anyone but yourself if you end up only meeting men who do the same.

-Oegukeen

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51 responses to “[Q&A] Do Korean men like black women?”

benita

August 8, 2015

Am a black girl and i like Korean guys. I was in a party with my friends the party was for Korean guys in one company like that in my country. I saw many Korean guys and I was so happy and many of them keep looking at me and asking of my name. My girlfriend and her boyfriend ask me who I like I asked him what if he doesn’t like me he said all the guys likes you. But I only like one because he was the Cain of guy I like. He was not very handsome like others but he was parfact for me. And he also liked me a lot. I think Korean guys like slim and beautiful woman not only that and a gentle person.

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Kim Hang Soon

January 27, 2015

i would die for a beautiful black woman. And yes i’m a Korean guy.

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me

December 15, 2014

I dont think judgements make a sense,just like our men,thats how they are too.am hoping to get married to one but of course its personality.who wouldnt want to live outside their box.people having similar beliefs find it monotonous and boring,

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Iconica

October 18, 2014

Korean men find most black african women more attractive than korean women.due to their pride,timidity,and lack of courage they won,t open up rather they would prefer to harbor dat pain inside their heart.most korean men are afraid of what the rebels wil say about them. Koreans is time to change and stop pretending .u cant aproach a black woman that easy because they are courageous, inteligent,enlighthen, they always make the first move.i admire blacks & their hair texture. U asians especially korea is time to wake from ur sick bed & meet some one u love wether black,hispanic,white etc be thrutful to ur cocience.

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1. oegukeen
  
  October 18, 2014
  
  That’s all rather generalizing without any real basis in facts
  
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2. jstele
  
  April 7, 2015
  
  Most Korean men prefer Korean women. If they are open to dating others, it is usually other Asians or whites. It is rare for a Korean man to be attracted to a black woman.
  
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  1. oegukeen
    
    April 7, 2015
    
    Most [insert country name] men prefer [insert same country name] women.
    
    When have you EVER heard of people of a certain nation dating more foreigners than people who actually are closest to them culturally and simply physically?
    
    It is true that Black/Asian relationships are some of the rarest pairings. But don’t forget, statistics are important for dealing with societal issues and predicting trends. It helps us zero in on the problem at large and try to fix it. It would certainly be great to live in the world some day where race does not at all influence who falls in love with whom. And knowing the statistics is the first step in solving that problem.
    
    However, statistics are completely irrelevant to an individual. There is no such thing as an average Korean man, just as there is not such thing as an average Black woman.
    
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lilian

September 5, 2014

blk and asian so possible

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Anonymous

August 20, 2014

Koreans’ opinion on black people is quite bad http://groovekorea.com/article/koreas-black-racism-epidemic-0

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